I have so much to say. If I were to say " I'll put it in a nutshell" the nutshell would probably explode. Well how about a seashell ? It's spacious and cute around the edges. No, no, a seashell just would not work. My experience in six month just can't be put in a box, container or anything else. It has been a ride.
I thought I would be able to keep up with this blog more. I thought that I would make at least weekly updates. But life, I have not just been documenting it, I have been living it. The trek to the café, the slow service, and the sporadic availability of light has made it less than desirable. You feeling bad for me now? Well don't. I am having the time of my life.
So after long adieu~ here are the updates.
Life is good. It has taken time to settle in but now I feel stronger about where I am and my purpose. A little over a year ago I started this journey. I began reading other peoples blogs and being inspired by their journey and now I am writing my own.
I guess I will write this in stages:
I am still living at my family house. We live off of a major street Sr. Samuel Lewis Road which is more popularly referred to as Aberdeen Road. The house is at the end of a red dirt road not to far from the water. It is much different from living on my own quite condo in Inglewood. My house here is hustling and bustling with life at least 12 people live here. My favorite people are my nieces and the little girls in the neighborhood. They are a sight to see. They keep me very entertained. My little crew, they are there when I wake up, hang out in my room. I love my neighborhood. It is filled with children and families that have been here as long as my grandparents have. It is incredible to have this connection here. When I step out of my house I greet familiar faces. There is life and music. We have a wonderful view of the water and the Aberdeen Bridge from our verandah. I make it a point to admire it each day. Looking forward to getting my own place.
Food is great~ Rice is the staple food and we eat it with many different sauces. Groundnut Soup, Stew, Cassava Leaves. Although I get tired of rice I am getting used to it. Heck I have no choice. There are also many other things that they prepare for me, like grilled chicken and chips, fried fish, roast meat and such. There are also some fabulous restaurants in which you can get most things you desire like pizza and burgers and fine dining. Barracuda is my most favorite thing in Sierra Leone. I know some of you may be thinking BARACUDA but you have just got to try it!!!!
Yesterday as I was coming home from the internet café, I took some time to admire dusk. You know that time when the sun is kissing the horizon? The ending of day. It was breathtaking. It was in that moment I realized I live HERE! In Sierra Leone where moments like those are never ending. As I continued to walk home I took note of everything around me. The shop keepers on the side of the road, the woman who sells coal, the Fula man that owns a silver shop, tailors, woman selling roast meat, the women braiding hair in the baffa. A smile spread over my face.
From the street I could here music blaring. As I turned onto the pathway a short cut from the main street I saw they had set up a music set behind the shops on the lower road.
" My Love is Wicked" ( The most popular song in the country right now) was playing. All the children in the neighborhood were dancing in the street. The children collecting water put their yellow drums to the side to enjoy beats. I could not help but laugh. My nieces came running to take my computer bag. " No go back and enjoy yourselves". I stood against the wall for a while watching them live life like there is no tomorrow.
"Ehhh Yeniva you body done fine oh" Lef am so" ) Yeniva your body looks good. Leave it like that. They are making references to my weight. I have lost a lot of weight here. Eating habits are much different. No cappuccino's from Starbucks in the morning and snacking is unusual. I do more walking than ever before and definitely more sweating.
In the beginning I was trying to find the rhythm of life, the step to follow. Now everything has just sort of fallen into place. My schedule is full and I am pushing forward, much more independent. I wake up in the morning and get my own water now. I must admit I was spoiled, well more blessed. There is always someone available that wants to help me. Wash dishes, clean my floor, cook, go to the store. We don't have a water heater so the water has to be boiled every morning and it's stored in a flask. Now its no thing to tie my "lappa" and go get the water myself. Saturday I swept my room (with a palm tree broom) got a bucket of water, soap and a brush and started to clean my room. My nieces and their friends came upstairs for a snack and saw me. The "Dri Yeye Crew" five women in little bodies, all stood around the door way, hand on their hips, mouth open. "So Aunty Yeniva you sabi clean ?" ( So Aunty Yeniva you know how to clean) " Yes I sabi clean, wetin do ar no get hand ?" ( Yes I know how to clean don't I have hands?) " Put am don, ar dae can do am" ( put it down I will come do it) . " No ar dae clean am for mi sef " ( No I'm going to clean it for my self) Some how I guess they think that we don't clean in America or cook are much of anything for that matter. I am working on them, but that a whole other entry.
I have had the chance to read more than ever before. Purple Hibiscus, The Power of Now, Shades of Grey, Ancestor Stones!!!!
The most encouraging thing is that many young people are moving back. It is such an encouraging sight to see. I have made connections with people I will know for the rest of my life. We all came home with a dream; we are in this experience together. So there is a wonderful support network, people who understand my frustrations and the day to day ups and downs of Sierra Leone. But what can I say its home.
I want to thank my family and friend FOR ALL OF YOUR SUPPORT. I could not survive with out you. The gifts you are sending are keeping me a float. ( PS keep um coming!! My Aunty Yeabu brought me some flip flops and a purse and I thought I was going to faint!!!! There is plenty of fashion here and believe me I am sewing outfits but there is nothing like things from home!!
Wanted to add a new photo album but I have been here the last four hours and its not working. Check back tomorrow!! Peace!